Do you ever wonder if your partner truly loves you? Maybe they say it to you sometimes, but you still ask yourself how devoted they are to you. Will they be there through thick and thin? Will they be there for you not only at your best, but at your worst? Can they actually give you what you WANT in life?
There are 3 signs to know whether they truly love you:
1. It's not what they SAY, it's what they DO
Do your partner's actions align with their words? Making overtures about their love for you is nice but if they continue to do things that illustrate their lack of love for you, then what value are their words? You'll know you've got a keeper when you find it hard to remember the last time they said one thing, but did another.
2. They love you for YOU
Have you ever been in a relationship where it seemed like your partner was never satisfied with who you are? Maybe you're in a relationship like that now. No matter how hard you try, they've always got a derogatory comment about some way in which you can change or improve. Someone who truly loves you accepts you for who you are! It's never too late to stand up for yourself and tell them how you feel.
3. They ALWAYS consider your feelings
One of the clearest signs your partner truly loves you is that they show you genuine empathy. In fact, they often put your wants, needs, and feelings before their own. They would never dream of making a major life decision, especially one that impacts both of you, without consulting you first. True love is about compassion, integrity, and mutual respect.
Often times our partners DO truly love us but our own insecurities prevent the relationship from progressing.
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