Family Conflict
I have a horrible relationship with my step mom...She has issues with me and I have issues with her... I have gotten to a point where a million bucks will still not make me talk to her I just don't need her in my life and obviously she don't need me in hers but I'm really cool with my step siblings but I have no problem with them and they have no problem with me. Is it wrong for me to not be on good terms with their mom?
By: Kay (not his real name)
What do you think Kay should do?
Hey Kay,
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing your problem with us.
I have been in similar situation in the past. To answer your question I would say yes it is wrong that you are not in good terms with your step-mom. I am just wondering if you did something to her to make her hate you.
If not I would say that she has problems with you because she might be feeling like you are you could ruin the relationship she has with your dad. I know you don't want to talk to her but she is married to your dad and she loves your dad, she loves your dad and your dad loves her too. If you love your dad and want to see he happy I would advice you to meet up with your step-mom in a public place for coffee and talk things through. You can ask her what you have done to cause this hatred towards you and apology for it. At least if you two can't get along do it for your dad or else it would effect the relationship you have with your dad.
I don't know the entire story but I would like to ask you, why you have issues with her? Do you feel like she is trying to replace your mom that's why you hate her?
(No one can replace your mom if you feel like she is. You only have one mom and no one can take that way from you)
Does your dad have other children, and does she have issues with them too?
Kay please contact me back and let me know your reply to these questions.
PS: Anyone with opinion on how to help Kay with his problem, please reply to my comment. We would like to hear from you.
Thank you
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ReplyDeleteAre you going to post bad experiences or just general experience in relationships ?
Thank you. Yes I would be sharing people's love or relationship problems and I'll try and advice them on what stands they can to help solve their problems. I would also like to hear other people's opinion to help advice people with relationship issues.
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